Now I’m not a sexist, I hate men every bit as much prime facie, but society and behaviours learned have developed to such a degree that women, what they do because they’re “allowed” to or always do, thoroughly … gets to me. An example, is how women typically don’t get out of the way; you’re walking along and a woman walks towards you, she won’t get out of the way cos that’s what men do – that’s what men have always done for these women. That’s fine, the boys always wanted to be nice to the girls. BUT, if one more woman just stands in a doorway and looks at me, expecting me to go around her, I’m gonna slap her – I swear! This Pavlovian Dog mechanism has taught these women to not even think to move, to such a degree that even when they’re just standing in a doorway they won’t. This never happens with men, they move out the doorway for me.
I don’t blame these women, they’re doing what they’ve learnt, but it irritates me. And it happens both ways… to the point of this post:
Ladies, imagine a guy likes you, and he tells you. You don’t like him back, but he says you should cos it’s only fair. This irritates you a little and you like him less. He asks what the difference is between the two of you that you don’t like him back; and you can’t ethically say anything derogatory. This irritates you more, he now seems to be an ass. Eventually, after this kind of stuff goes on for a while, he says, “Okay, why don’t you even take me seriously anymore?” And you tell him it’s because he’s irritating. And he calls you a sexist.
He was clearly going about it all wrong! Now, replacing the concept of liking someone with the concept of acknowledging rights, and you have:
Women, saying they deserve equal rights. Many men agree, so these women (spurred on by acknowledgement) say, “Look at these men, they agree, we deserve equal rights.” The men, even those who agreed, turn around and say that the women have rights; but the women say back that they’re not being taken seriously, how can they be seen different? And the men can’t say anything derogatory, because it’s unethical. So, in the end, legally women are equal to men (which is good) but the men don’t take them seriously, or like them – for the very same reason that the you don’t like the ass in the example above.
Women here are clearly going about it wrong! You see, women fuss about getting the right man, a guy who takes charge and should somehow psychically know what he’s supposed to do once he’s taken charge because if he does the wrong thing he’s out (this is why men study pick-up artistry, by the way). Women fuss about how models on magazine covers make them look bad, and how it objectifies and degrades women. They fuss about rape-related issues - I know for a fact that very often women call rape so that their boyfriends don’t find out. Fact - so occassionally it is just pathetic fussing. Hell, women often fuss about a man, like me, even bringing up the sex issues – as if only women can suffer post-coital consequences! Women also fuss for women’s rights, which they deserve, and they fuss about being taken seriously. Here’s the catch: Men don’t take these women seriously because we see them as FUSSY. This is why feminists are so often despised: they give women a bad name.
Ladies, you’re doing it wrong. You will never be taken seriously so long as you keep telling people to take you seriously. And men, you will never get a woman to like you if you nag her to.
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